The man with four wives

There was a man with four wives. 

He loved his fourth wife the most and took a great care of her and gave her the best. 

He also loved his third wife and always wanted to show her off to his friends. 
However, he was always had a fear that she might runaway with some other man. 

He loved his second wife too. 

Whenever he faced some problems, he always turned to his second wife and she would always help him out. 

He did not love his first wife though she loved him deeply, was very loyal to him and took great care of him. 
One day the man fell very ill and knew that he is going to die soon. He told himself, “I have four wives with me. I will take one of them along with me when I die to keep company in my death.”

Thus, he asked the fourth wife to die along with him and keep company. “No

way!” she replied and walked away without another word.
He asked his third wife. She said “Life is so good over here. I’m going to remarry when you die”.
He then asked his second wife. She said “I’m Sorry. I can’t help you this time around. 
At the most I can only accompany you til your grave.” By now his heart sank and turned cold. Then a voice called out: “I’ll leave with you. I’ll follow you no matter where you go.” 

the man looked up and there was his first wife.

She was so skinny, almost like she suffered from malnutrition. 

Greatly grieved, the man said, “I should have taken

much better care of you while I could have!”

Actually, we all have four

wives in our lives. 
1. The fourth wife is our body. No matter how much time and effort we

lavish in making it look good, it’ll leave us when w die. 
2. The third wife is our

possessions, status and wealth. When we die, they go to others. 
3. the second wife is our family and friends. No matter how close they had been there for us when we’re alive, the furthest they can stay by us is up to the grave. 
4. the first wife is our soul, neglected in our pursuit of material wealth and pleasure. It is actually the only thing that follows us wherever we go.

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Message of the day

The Bible reassure us that if we cry unto God he hears us. It doesn’t matter what we are going through, it may seem that there is no hope or end to our suffering but he hears us. He equipped us with intelligence and strength. Whatever you are going through there is a way. Be still and know that you serve a Covenant Keeping God. 

Obviously you need to put your trust in Him and step in faith. The saying God help those who help themselves is true. Sometimes we need to stop whining,  set a goal for ourselves and work hard towards our goal. It may not be easy or it may not go according to our plan but if we keep in mind that God is a miracle working God we will be able to achieve the impossible. Do not compete with others because God has equipped each and everyone one of us with different talents and task on earth. 

May the peace of God be with us all brethren.  In the Almighty name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth I pray. Amen

How to avoid vaginal infection.

To maintain a healthy vagina you must know what to do to avoid infection and it is equally important to educate your sexual partner on some of them to also help you help the vagina.
Here are some few things you can do or avoid.

1. Fingering 

During foreplay or romance, as part of it some people insert their finger or fingers into the vagina. The question is, how many people wash their hands before sexual intercourse? Some people do not even keep their nails clean so it gathers a lot of germs and during the fingering, these germs are deposited in the vagina…leading to infection. Same thing apply to autopleasure acts or masturbation.

2. Anal sex

I am not here to tell anybody to have anal sex or not to but I simply want to draw the attention of those who engage in anal sex with the opposite sex that it is dangerous to have anal sex and continue having penovaginal sex. If this is done, the penis will pick bacteria from the anus and deliver them to the vagina even if you are using a condom….which will lead to infection.

3. Quest to make the vagina TIGHT

Some guys complain bitterly about the vagina of their sexual partners. They complain that it’s too big and they no more feel any sensation during intercourse. Some ladies are therefore pushed to find a quick solution and in the process some use herbs or other substances in the vagina with the hope of making the vagina tight. Some of the substances cause infection or sepsis. Some of the herbs can cause the vagina to get tighter to the extent that penetration is no more possible. This will require treatment.

4. Douching 

Some parents, when bathing for their baby girls put warm water in a milk tin or dip a towel in the warm water and pour the water through a hole made beneath the tin or squeeze the water out of the towel into the vagina of the baby. This is sooooo WRONG as it can damage the hymen.

Some parents also insert ginger or pepper or both into the vagina of adolescents as a form of punishment. This is sooooo WRONG as it can lead to infection.

Some people are use to bathing by adding dettol or other detergents to the water and they put this solution inside the vagina with the help of sponge or towel or just the hand with soap to clean the vagina. This is soooo WRONG as it will change the normal flora in the vagina, leading to infection.

5. Use of water closet

Some people have the habit of not sitting on the seat of the WC when using it so they end up urinating on the seat. The possibility of picking infection when using it in that condition is high. Don’t let your pant be at the thigh level when using the WC especially the public ones as the inner of the pant may rub the surface of the WC. Where the water is not running and people have used but have not flushed and you don’t have any choice but to also use it, use enough toilet roll to cover before using the WC to avoid any splashes on the vulva.

6. Washing and drying 

Develop the habit of disinfecting your panties frequently…depending on the number of pants you have. Keep exclusive panties to wear whenever you are menstruating and don’t mix those panties with your regular panties. Pay particular attention to those panties when washing. Ensure that the panties are made of cotton and are dried in the sun or well ironed to kill germs.

7. Change sanitary pads

Some people try to economize the use of their sanitary pads so during the period they tend to still wear the pad because there is little or no blood. This is soooo WRONG as it can lead to infection.

NB: If there is any bad scent from the vagina or there is a discharge coming from the vagina then it might be an infection which you have to have it treated.

Help save the vagina by ensuring that you get the message to as many friends as possible. Help save the vagina by getting the message to your sexual partner or sisters.

Do you know the Son of My Heavenly Father? Watch and be inspired!

Has we honour, respect and live like the Son (Jesus Christ) of the Almighty God may we be inspired daily and be assured that no weapon formed against us will prosper and that our God will turn what our enemies meant for evil into good, for His Word says that He (God) plans to bless us above all that we can ask for. Let us remove all fear from our heart because once we have recognized Jesus as our saviour and God as our protector and Father they will always be with us, in good and in bad time, till the ends of time. Amen

Message of the day

We all have sinned and have regrets but we can rest assured that if we confess our sins to our Almighty God, he is merciful enough to forgive us. We are justified by the Grace of God through the great sacrifice of His son Jesus Christ who died and shed His blood so that we may live.

We all have skeletons in our cupboards, no one among us is without sin. Sometimes we have done so many despicable things that we are ashamed to confess, for fear of being judged by others. The important thing is to repent, confess our sins to God and ask for forgiveness not only from God but also from the person we have wronged.

Many times we fear the reaction of the person we may have wronged but if we kneel in the Almighty presence of God and reminds Him of the promise of redemption through His Son Jesus and ask for strength to confess our sins, rest assured that He will give us the strength and courage to confess our shortcomings.

Even the saints of the Bible sinned but repented, but this should not be an excuse to sin.  The same way we would not take advantage of the kindness of our fellow human beings why would we take advantage of the mercy and kindness of our Heavenly Father. God is good but not a fool. He sees everything we do, he can see in the deepest part of our heart and soul and he knows when we are truly repented.

Don’t wait for someone to pray for you. Do it yourself. Open the bible or if you don’t have a bible just pour your heart to God, ask him for forgiveness and to touch the heart of the person you have wronged. 

God is merciful enough to give us a second chance. 

Brethren, let us be of pure heart and always remember not to judge each other but rather to give constructive advice to our fellow brothers and sisters and also to accept constructive advice. 

May the peace of the Almighty God be with us all and I pray that this message touches the heart of those people that are in dire need of a reassurance that God still loves them. In the Almighty name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth I pray. Amen.

Message of the day

When you have an unshakable faith is when our Heavenly Father is able to start and complete the good work that He has promised to do in our lives. The enemy want to frustrate us and he may come in many forms but our faith in the Word of God and by living like His son Jesus Christ will help us face any storm. 

Whether you are battling a sickness,  lack of job, missed opportunities, marital issues, depression,  shameful past etc. if you pray and ask God to renew your strength and faith every morning, He will surely help you and clothe you in a new ensemble of mercy, joy, love, happiness and truth.

Never give up because God gives is hardest battle to his strongest soldiers.

I pray in this very moment that anyone who plans evil against us shall be condemned by the Almighty God and their plans failed. 

Those who want to bring us down, shall be exposed and they will have no options than to bow down their head in shame and tremble in our presence. Not because of our physical power,  intelligence and external beauty but because the Almighty God lives in us.

May the peace of the Almighty God be with you all my brethren. In the Almighty Name of His son Jesus Christ of Nazareth I pray.